NEED TO KNOW
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Her partner and his brothers were upgraded to business class on a 14-hour flight, but she was left alone in economy
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She was already grieving and anxious, but no one offered to switch so she could sit with her partner
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Now, she’s questioning whether her emotional reaction was fair or a red flag about the relationship
A woman is seeking support from the Reddit community after a distressing experience on a long-haul flight with her partner and his two brothers.
In her post, the woman explained that the group was traveling overseas using staff travel benefits, thanks to her partner’s mother, who works for an airline.
“We check in for our flight home and are told the only staff travel option is economy, which is fine by me and his brothers,” she shares, explaining that they had arranged seats so she and her partner could sit together.
However, as they waited to board, everything changed when the airline worker announced that her partner and his brothers had been upgraded to business class, leaving her alone in economy.
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“My partner asked if I could be upgraded too, but there wasn’t space,” she recalls. She insisted she didn’t care about flying economy, but told them that she “didn’t want to sit alone for a long flight.”
She was already feeling fragile, having just learned that a friend’s child had died. On top of that, she was stressed about work obligations after landing. “I told my partner I was anxious and didn’t want to sit alone. He felt bad but didn’t offer to stay with me,” she explains.
Her discomfort grew when neither of her partner’s brothers offered to swap seats so she could stay with him. “Being the only one not upgraded also sucked. Even though his brothers didn’t mind flying economy, neither offered to swap so I could stay with him,” she writes.
As boarding time approached, she found herself overwhelmed with emotion. “We boarded soon after, and I was in tears telling him I didn’t want to sit alone,” she admits. However, he didn't listen.
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She spent the lengthy flight reflecting on her partner’s decision. “I had 14 hours to stew over the fact that my partner didn’t even consider staying with me,” she says, adding that sitting together was a big part of the travel experience for her.
Trying to keep perspective, she messaged him during the flight that she “was comfortable and grateful for the staff travel, but still upset I was alone.”
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When they landed, she struggled to put her emotions into words. “I didn’t want to speak to him when we landed, but I told him it was a big deal to me,” she writes.
She told him that she “never wanted to travel with him again” if it meant she had to fly “alone.”
“I knew I was being irrational and admitted it, but was genuinely upset,” she writes. “Even if he’d offered to stay, I would’ve insisted he take the upgrade, but he didn’t.”
While she decided to drop the issue, her partner brought it up again later, leading her to second-guess herself. “He said my reaction ruined his flight. I get that – I could’ve just accepted it,” she admits.
Now, she’s left wondering if her feelings were justified or if she was in the wrong for being so upset.
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